I used to try to understand the answer to that question. Why, I'd ask myself, do two people with the same background, qualifications, and charm produce divergent results? Perhaps you've wondered this about yourself: Why is it that you, with all of your relationships and intentions, generate less business than that competitor who (truth be told) is a bit of a hack?
But our efforts to understand why usually do little more than slow or even paralyze our progress. As professional problem-solvers for our clients, we are hard-wired to search for an explanation to the business development conundrum. And it's perfectly human to seek to understand cause in our lives. But the subjective answers we often settle for do little to move us closer toward our goals. Trial-by-error offers far more valuable insight than rumination.
So, ask yourself: "Are you a Whyer or a Whater?" Because the key to business development is action. Even if what you do is a mistake, you'll learn from it, you'll shift your direction, and you'll gain hindsight.
So, if you aren't yet developing the business you want, spend less energy trying to understand the cause. You may never reach a satisfying answer and that time is better spent in the trenches. Instead, try a new strategy.
Your top competitor is eating your lunch. Why? Don't obsess about it. There's a more important question to ask: What are you going to do to improve your own results? Oh, and one more thing: when?
Authored by David Ackert